Mom’s nest is empty
Goldwyn finally left our Davao home 7AM this morning and flew to Makati to work for Proctor&Gamble. I’m just not sure what exactly his job would be but I heard he’s supervising a system covering the entire P&G Asia. I bet my bro can’t be blogging until he’s settled there so I’m letting the world know on his behalf
His Canadian boss called him up earlier and told him to secure his passport because there will certainly be traveling opportunities for Ngotie. I bet he’s so excited. He was all packed up and ready to fly a couple of weeks ago. I’m happy for him and with all my heart hoping he’ll make it there, far and wide.
I’m just concerned about my mom and dad who are left in the silent home. Their youngest child finally stepped out of the doorstep and into the wild. I know they are both feeling empty right now. My mom texted me this morning saying that my dad wept. And I know without her telling me that she did, too.
Sure they had 6 other kids who left the home before. And even though they felt this separation for the 7th time now, I believe every experience is different than the other. Hurting them more each time because the nest is silent than ever just when they are aging and needed company.
Mom and Dad have nothing but pictures and memories of laughters, pillow fights (or dospordos fights), first come-first served dinner time, pansit-sugba-kinilaw nights and no-work-no-eat household chores Sundays. I’m sure my sibs know what I’m talking about. The gloom my Mom and Dad maybe feeling at this moment is the sweet kind, one that brings tears of joy and of gratitude - all wrapped in an overwhelming sadness with how quickly time could fly by and knowing that things will never be the way it was before.
Posted: June 13th, 2008 under Blogadagging.
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